I really really need help!! Separate religious beliefs?

I'm a Christian and this is my opinion: You don't have to change who you are in order to be respectful and tolerant of his religious views. I'm actually surprised that you are even willing to go with him to church, that's very supportive of you, but I hope you don't feel like you have to go. He married you knowing you're agnostic and he should still respect your religious (or lack of) views. His family is a separate issue, yes how they treated him is wrong (in my opinion), all i can say is some families take religion extremely seriously. I'm not sure what you mean by repent? He should not be repenting to his family, only God can give forgiveness for sins, not the family. Also, I think going to church 2 hrs away is rediculous, I mean all that driving is just plain bad for the environment, tell him God wouldn't want him polluting the World He created like that :) Also, whatever church he decides to go to, you have every right to insist that he keep your relationship issues private, no one needs to know every detail or ANY detail about your life. He can be social without answering rude and personal questions. Being Christian is about having a relationship with God, knowing God, you can't know God just by going to church.